Love and Relationship

A relationship is very beautiful and wonderful things in the universe of beings. A relationship never is distraction to anything. It can help us to bring out that is already there with us, it never is responsibility. It help us by showing our feeling that is hidden long time, infect it gives us the courage to feel our feelings. In truth, it is the mirror that shows the faces of both the partners. It is great opportunities for all, to create the wonderland of our living. Whenever we feel annoyed, our relationship will be the perfect antidote.
When we feel angry we just blame others and our relation or partners. Indeed no one knows and feels the main root of our negative feelings. Why not, say; “I am feeling angry.” Instead of saying; “You have made me angry.”And if we are same with all emotions then there is no ways to be frustration with our relationship. Remember; nobody can make us sad or happy, but it is ourselves who has to decide. So we use the relationship as our mirror to be more aware and alert about our feelings.
We are in relationship, it is because we are in errand of love; so be true to love and do not think about partners. If we are true to love, then we shall never balm anyone and we shall be loyal to our partners. And our heart shall never flip to another. If we are really in favor of love, we will be neither from west nor from east. We will never bother to which society we belong. But we will be with our love. Always be deeply committed and be absorbed by relationship. Then love will be able to transform us in to the heaven of relation. But if there is no love, it is healthier to change. But don’t become devotee of change. Don’t let it become a perfunctory habit that we have to change after each one or two years like our cloths.
If love is there, bond to it and give it an opportunity to grow. If we are in love, love is competent enough of extant everything whether it be sadness, anger, unhappiness or a little conflict. Love understands everything, and it bonds us with perfect relationship. If we are in love we are ready to pass through all these dark nights because we will be aware of morning. Love teaches us to be patient. And love is so priceless that no matter which else a cost to be rewarded for it is, at the most.
The predicament arises only when we are not in love. Then there is only anger and sadness and unhappiness. We know that in some relationship, love do not exist so they drop out of it. To be despondent is not only bad for us; it is dreadful for the all. Don’t cling and don’t prolong with misery, because it will be destructive. We may change the partner but with the other partner we will do the same and we will be alone. Relationships can fetch things out. A relationship is not imaginative; it is insightful. So just watch the love and be understanding.
Persons are beautiful but couples are hideous. Something is going wrong somewhere, it shouldn’t be, but it is. Most of us knew the love in wrong way. What we describe love is not love; it is something call fun. Sometimes we are alone and we cannot stand with our loneliness, and just to block the gap, we find someone but it is not love. So, most of us are in false love and bonded by fake relationship. Just feel it, if we cannot be content when alone, how can we be happy together? Two unhappy persons double the unhappiness but they will never be content; so the relationship is going to be wrong. But if we seek out the other with happiness, then the relationship will never be wrong. Last words: Love self, don’t be stiff; be pliable and then learn how to exonerate self and don’t be aggressive to self. Then we shall flower with our love and relationship.